Female's Guide To Male's Mind On: Getting Guys With Personality

    This post is dedicated to getting guys with personality. A lot of women believe that guys are completely shallow and that if you don't have the looks, you can't get a mans attention or affection. Well that not entirely true. Men do appreciate personality, especially when you're talking long term. If a guy is with you because of your personality, you better believe he is thinking long term. Also the older a man gets, the more personality comes into play. Dealing with women can be a pain and a woman sticking out with personality is highly appreciated. The longer your personality sticks out, the hotter you become. For hot girl, it's the other way around. Her looks goes down after a while, especially if she's a bitch. If a guy is with a girl because of looks, their time together is dependent on him getting bored with sleeping with her. Also, the saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is very true. Just because a guy doesn't think a woman is cute in the face doesn't mean he doesn't find her sexy. They're are so many women out there that get the hot rep just because of their body, and vice verse. So if there are any women out there that feel they aren't attractive enough to get men's attention, I want to give a few tips on how to use your personality to get any man you want.


     The first tip is to be aggressive. Make the first move and be obvious about it. Women are basically cowards when it comes to romance. They wait for the men to make the first move. They're afraid of the rejection. Well men are afraid of it to but they suck it up and go for what they want. To take it a step further, women  will pretend to reject just to test a man's confidence and see if he lets it detours him. Well men won't play that game. If he turns you down, there is a better than 50 percent chance he really isn't interested but that doesn't mean you should give up. It could just be your approach. So be confident, obvious, and direct. Don't give hints that you want him to ask you out, show up with tickets to the game and asks if he wants to go. When you get him at the dinner table, actually pay for the meal. When he tries to reach for his wallet to pay, stop him and say “hey I asked you out.” Another reason why making the first move works, is games. Women play so many games that it's refreshing to meet one that isn't. Depending on the guy, it may say a lot of good things about you. It definitely says confidence and woman aren't the only ones that like confidence. It also says, “I go for what I want and I get what I want.” For men that are mama's boys, this runs right up their ally. It suggest strength like their mama, and on a subconscious level it will work wonders for you. No need to mention how he will treat you when you trigger that side of him. Try this one night when you're with your friends. Approach a guy with one of your hot friends, and talk to him for a bit. Ask him out with her there. I promise he will be respectful, maybe even accept the date. Even if he isn't interested, he wont act like a jerk because he won't want to look like an bad guy in front of the hot friend. Don't back down if he declines and asks your hot friend out. Just mention one of you asked him out and the other one didn't, and he need to make a decision. When you get the date, that's your chance to impress him with your charm.
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     The second tip is to be very complimentary. Men really like compliments, because women rarely give them. You would be surprised to find out how many good looking  guys don't know they are good looking. When you see that not so cute girl with that really hot guy, that's what it's usually about. He never knew he was hot. Most of his life women did things to bring down his confidence, so he doesn't get a swelled head. They think he's been getting it easily all his life. The truth is all the women he came across thought that same thing and made him work for it. Therefore, he just thought he had average looks. So make him blush. Make him feel good about himself. What he does, how he smell, and what he says. Show him he's appreciated. This will benefit you for several reasons. The first one is you will stick out and stick out for the right reasons. You made him feel good and men usually marry women because of the way they make them feel. You also stick out because like I said before, most women don't give compliments. It will also throw him off guard. To know where he stands, be able to just talk to a woman and be himself, is something a man isn't use to. They are use to having to impress a girl, not the other way around. If you like confident men, watch his confidence go through the roof when you give him reason to be
   

     The next tip is to do a campaign. Get his friends on your side. Bring everybody lunch. Hook them up with all of your easy friends. Even if they aren't easy, a basic introduction works wonders. Any success they have with your friends works wonders for you. If they get laid, they become your friend for life. If they only get a phone number, they are at the bare minimum only saying good thing about you to him. So play match maker if one of his friends likes yours. It doesn't have to work out. Even if it doesn't, break it to the friend that your friend doesn't like him. It won't hurt you. Guys have a saying when it comes to women. You can take a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. You brought the water. It also kills any doubts he might have about his friends teasing him about going out with a less than attractive girl, if he even finds you less than attractive in the first place. Peer pressure is a powerful thing, why not use it to your advantage. Having his friends constantly in his ear asking “where is she “ and repeatedly saying “she is such a cool chic” will psychologically take a toll. So be extra nice to his friends. Go to the bar with him and buy the first round or everyone a shot. Did I mention if it doesn't work out with the guy you're working on, the friends notice and sometimes take interest for themselves. Get a bunch of tickets for the game and pass them out. If you can make his friends your friends, they might may make him your man.

    Lastly is about talking to him. Act like you're really into him and what he has to say. Women say they like to talk, but the truth is they like to talk while the man listens. Well be the girl that does the listening. It would be so refreshing to a man that he didn't have to worry about impressing a girl and could just sit back and relax. Also, be funny and interesting. Woman put so much pressure on the man to provide the fun, that they don't take into consideration if the man is having any fun. They usually take an earn me approach to the whole situation. Be direct with guys. Most women hint or give clues. Be the girl that says “ I would love some Chinese food, or Tuesday I'm free.” Having to play mind reader is one of the biggest problems men have with women. It would be so appreciated if it was just said flat out. Another thing, is to stop with the games and testing. The tests aren't a fair test to what you want to find out, and the games are just annoying.
 

    Now those are the tips to getting men with personality. These tips are things any woman can do. They aren't hard and they make you look better than every other girl out there. When you stick out by trying to get with him as much as he's trying to get with you, it starts to just feel right for him. Just make sure you aren't used. So I hope you find this post useful.

 

By: Intimate Asking